Love has many levels and people enrich your life in different ways. No one completes you. You are complete. People compliment you. Candy hearts given on Valentines day should say “Be Us” not “Be Mine”… Mine implies ownership. You are you, I am me. I’ll never be yours and you’ll never be mine. We can connect on amazing levels and be fantastically awesome together, we can become deeply intimate, but we’re still not each other’s. We’re us, and us is better than mine because all the bullshit goes out the door. There is no end of a real relationship. The relationship can evolve in many ways and be more or less intense, but we will always have some connection on some level because we’ve already connected. It’s simple and logical, but most people just can’t grasp it because of their upbringing or their unwillingness to let go of what is “traditional”. Love isn’t a tradition, it’s a connection. Us is a connection. Does that mean we have more than one connection? Of course it does! We have tons of connections, but tradition says fight and toil and pressure yourself into shutting off all connections but one. That goes against everything we are. I’m not going to spend my life fighting a losing battle. I live my life in the most logical and truest form. I live and love and experience true happiness and bliss everyday for it. But what about marriage? What about it? It’s just an extension of that same traditional bullshit. Why do most marriages end in divorce? People try and fight human nature and they lose. If you be true to yourself you never lose, you’re not constantly hurt or in doubt, and you can experience life on a level most people can’t even fathom. Be free, and be happy. It’s unfortunate most people aren’t and will never be.